Every heart is explainable.
A number you cannot question is a verdict. Every moment in this product is weighed one, two or three hearts, and can say, in one plain sentence, why.
Most apps that weigh anything ask you to trust the weight. This one cannot afford to: the thing being weighed is what one person did for another, and an unexplained number in that position is not a measurement, it is an opinion with a font.
So the scale is small enough to read at a glance (one heart, two, or three), and each moment can be opened for the sentence behind its weight.
Who decides, and who deliberately does not
The app does the weighing. Not your partner, and not you. That is the pivot this product turns on: your partner never grades what you did, you never grade yourself, and neither of you is ever handed the job of putting a number on the other.
- One heart: an ordinary small kindness. Real, worth seeing, done in passing.
- Two hearts: it took real time, planning or attention out of a full day.
- Three hearts: it carried the day. A big lift, a hard moment handled, something your household in particular finds heavy.
Weighed for your couple, not an average one
The same school run is nothing in one house and the whole morning in another. Each of you can privately tell the app a little about your life (what fills your days, what tends to fall on you) and the weighing reads it. Your partner never sees what you wrote; the privacy page says exactly where those words go and where they do not.
The reason shown beside a weight never quotes or hints at what either of you wrote. It has to make sense to somebody who knows only what was logged.
A heart that has been shown never moves
The weight is frozen the moment it lands. The app keeps learning what an ordinary week looks like for the two of you, and that learning only ever changes how future moments are weighed: nothing you already added shifts underneath you. A week is a thing that happened, and it keeps reading the way it read when you lived it.
No verdicts, no averages, no winner
Three steps cannot pretend to be precision, and that is the point. The week shows both of you side by side, never ranked; quiet mode can put even that away. The hearts are there so the invisible work has a size, not so anybody can win.
See your own week weighed.
Add one thing tonight. By Sunday the two of you have a week to look at: each moment with its hearts, and each heart with its why.
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